“Thank you for your long replies, Zhang Shuo.I just sent a message to your WeChat (maybe a little easier than here). Single life can also be happy indeed. And you are still young, so can find a better one. But it sounds like there is also a chance that your boyfriend will realise he should never lose you and will make up to you!! I hope so.”
其实我踏踏实实，在老师眼里我是好学生。唯独在爱情方面我太优秀以至于臭男人不能配得上我哈哈……
外教：Thank you for your long reply, Zhang Shuo.Maybe it is easier to answer here than in your 朋友圈. Yes, I remember you mentioned your boyfriend, also when we talked on Wechat and you had a dream about him (something about being a cat haha). I am glad to hear that perhaps there is still a chance your boyfriend will find you and you can accept him again. I only know him from your photos in which I think you always really look in love (but I also know photos usually show the happy moments). You are great, so I am sure your boyfriend must miss you a lot already!! But I do agree that long-distance relationships can be difficult; misunderstandings and irritations can occur more easily. I don't believe that you are crazy (just passionate and maybe sometimes showing emotions in an extreme way that your boyfriend does not know how to deal with haha). And maybe your boyfriend is really busy, even though that's never an excuse not to make some time for you. I am no expert on relationships haha, but as an older guy maybe I have learned a few things about communication. When people quarrel they often blame each other for their behaviour (“You always...“, “you never tell me...“). But maybe that behaviour is not the real problem. It sometimes help to mention your worries and needs to each other (“When you don't reply to my messages, I worry that you forgot about me and don't care about me“, “I need to hear that I am the best and only girl in the world for you, even when I'm in a crazy mood“. So more “I“ than “you“). Sometimes that can help to let the other understand better and reassure you (“I do love you and always think about you, but sometimes I am shy to say that or just so tired. I will do my best to say it more often). Haha sorry, I wrote too much, just hope maybe there is a chance this can still help you. No matter what, you are really nice and a cool girl, Zhang Shuo! So I am sure you can find a boy who loves you and treats you well. But it sounds like there is actually still a chance you and your boyfriend will get back together. I hope so.And maybe this is a sad or stressful time for you. Maybe you have better friends for this, but if there is anything I can do to help, just let me know! At least, I will always be happy to listen to you.
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